True Love

What is it?
Hasn't this question been asked a million times? I'd say more.
Anyways I'm posting because once again I was thinking about lots and lots of stuff when It came to me, and I made the connection. Let's examine the quote "You don't really know what you got till it's gone." Makes a lot of sense huh? Well How about "You don't really know what it is to relax unless you suffered and gone without it." or "You don't know what good is unless you've experienced the bad." I don't know about you all but to me that makes total sense. And There is a connection between the 3 of those. It's.. I can't really put it into words but I'll try. It's like the same concept or moral. But anyways I'm sure you all knew that. Well I was thinking about love and it's basically the same as good or like ya know? Well the same as you have to have bad to have good.. you have to have hate to have love.. make sense? I think it does. I think that most people have to hate somebody to really know what it is to love. And like myself.. you'll know if you've ever loved. I was in love once and I loved it :) It was really great and i enjoyed it and all but it left me.. no.. It was stolen from us. Long story but I didn't really realize i was in love with the girl until she left. I don't know where the hate came into place but you guys get it right?? I was in love! but i didn't know it. She left and then somewhere along the line i experienced hate.. which made me realize i was in love at a point. But now thinking about it.. maybe it's not hate? Maybe there are multiple ways to achieve and realize love. I might not know what love is but I think a girl like that comes once. Maybe I'm wrong maybe there are different girls that are perfect for you but I assure you if that's true it's not many. And like I've stated in my previous blog we are susceptible to change and that goes with out concept of love too, it's susceptible to change as well. I'm starting to believe we go through stages of love.. or maybe just life but love goes along with those stages of life. Either way.. i think one of the two are true. And I think that the stage that I'm in now.. Sofia is the Perfect girl for me. Maybe I'll transition into another stage and there will be a new perfect girl for me. Let's name the 1st stage.. stage 1 where Sofia is the perfect girl for me. And (if i transition) the 2nd stage.. stage 2 where there will be another perfect girl. If i were to move on and find a perfect girl for my stage 2 then whala! you know? but Sofia will remain the Perfect girl of my stage 1.. Always All Ways. But back to the subject.. Maybe I won't have to transition.. Maybe I'll remain at stage 2.. after all I'm pretty sure I'm much more mature than most my age so I will come to a climax or finale of stages sooner than most as well ya know? Well Anyways.. I have to get some stuff done. Just a thought for everyone.. Think about it!